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Old 09-15-2016, 04:08 PM
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are they the norms?
the human anatomy is desirable but what it transcends is more it is attraction galore more varied then afore.
a fetish is born out of awe of what the feeling could not therefore.

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are they the norms?
the human anatomy is desirable but what it transcends is more it is attraction galore more varied then afore.
a fetish is born out of awe of what the feeling could not therefore.
With respect to guys;

Did you know some guys can't pee when they are being watched. Check it out some day, go into the men's urinals (they won't mind I've seen plenty of girls in men's urinals) and stare at the guys trying to pee. Some won't be able to go.

I think this is related to the erection, in that some guys need to think some weird shit to get it up, compare this with the guys at the urinals and they are trying to think thoughts that you are not there watching them so they can pee.
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Whenever I think of fetishes, I think of a quote that my friend told me one time. I don't know where he heard it, but I do think that it is true and appropriate. "Whenever you are feeling down, just remember that you are someone's fetish."

I realize that it is meant essentially for those feeling lonely, but it does get the point across that there is a fetish for everything. I do think that fetishes are the norm, some are just more unique.
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They are Normal. But I don't think they are the "norm".

In other words, I am pretty sure there are more people with fetishes than there are without fetishes.
But I think that only applies to the more rare and outlandish fetishes, like a foot fetish or something.
Everybody has more subtle fetishes. I for one have a black hair and fair skin fetish. You can take the same woman; with dark hair I'll drool over her, with blonde hair I won't even take a second look.

But what draws the line between a fetish and a preference.

If I like to have sex doggy-style, does that mean I have a doggy-style fetish, or just prefer doggy-style?

I guess I should just google "fetish" and get a definition. But I don't want to.
okay okay here it is....wikipedia

Sexual fetishism or erotic fetishism is a sexual focus on a nonliving object or nongenital body part.[1] The object of interest is called the fetish; the person who has a fetish for that object is a fetishist.[2] A sexual fetish may be regarded as a non-pathological aid to sexual excitement, or as a mental disorder if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life.[1][3] Sexual arousal from a particular body part can be further classified as partialism.[4]


Ohhhh it's mostly concerned with non-genital body parts!
I have a button nose fetish.
I disagree with pointy noses.
If you have a pointy nose I do not trust you.
And also the flare of the nostrils,
I like big soft prominent nostril flares. Turns me on.
And the way the ears look from behind.
Can't really explain that one.
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are they the norms?
the human anatomy is desirable but what it transcends is more it is attraction galore more varied then afore.
a fetish is born out of awe of what the feeling could not therefore.
Hi Nacia.

In my youth, while a beach bum, a man stopped me and said he'd pay me ten dollars to throw oranges at him and his wife. My curiosity got the better of me and I said ok. So, when I arrived at his house, him, his wife and I rolled and squeezed some oranges until they were very soft. Then he showed me where to stand in their garage. On far wall was a false wall. They got naked, held hands and yelled 'fire away'! So I began throwing oranges at them. He became angry. "You need to throw harder. We want you to break our skin so the citrus acid can get inside the bruise. I'll give you another ten if you do that. So I threw the oranges as hard as I could and they oh'ed awh'ed. He gave me 20 dollars. We made a date to do it again the next week. "Why do you like that?" I asked. He laughed. "Cause we're pain sluts." It was money in the bank for a whole summer. wrc
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Hi Nacia.

In my youth, while a beach bum, a man stopped me and said he'd pay me ten dollars to throw oranges at him and his wife. My curiosity got the better of me and I said ok. So, when I arrived at his house, him, his wife and I rolled and squeezed some oranges until they were very soft. Then he showed me where to stand in their garage. On far wall was a false wall. They got naked, held hands and yelled 'fire away'! So I began throwing oranges at them. He became angry. "You need to throw harder. We want you to break our skin so the citrus acid can get inside the bruise. I'll give you another ten if you do that. So I threw the oranges as hard as I could and they oh'ed awh'ed. He gave me 20 dollars. We made a date to do it again the next week. "Why do you like that?" I asked. He laughed. "Cause we're pain sluts." It was money in the bank for a whole summer. wrc
wow that is a story and a half
would you say you have a fetish of your own?
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I like to think fetishes are explained by someone having an almost obsessive preference of something, not necessarily a sexual trait either.

I also consider it to be something not normally expressed in interest by what some people call the "vanilla" populace.
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Hi Nacia.

In my youth, while a beach bum, a man stopped me and said he'd pay me ten dollars to throw oranges at him and his wife. My curiosity got the better of me and I said ok. So, when I arrived at his house, him, his wife and I rolled and squeezed some oranges until they were very soft. Then he showed me where to stand in their garage. On far wall was a false wall. They got naked, held hands and yelled 'fire away'! So I began throwing oranges at them. He became angry. "You need to throw harder. We want you to break our skin so the citrus acid can get inside the bruise. I'll give you another ten if you do that. So I threw the oranges as hard as I could and they oh'ed awh'ed. He gave me 20 dollars. We made a date to do it again the next week. "Why do you like that?" I asked. He laughed. "Cause we're pain sluts." It was money in the bank for a whole summer. wrc
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I like to think fetishes are explained by someone having an almost obsessive preference of something, not necessarily a sexual trait either.

I also consider it to be something not normally expressed in interest by what some people call the "vanilla" populace.
what is that if I may ask??
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Hi Mohican.

I think they wanted another human to participate and if I showed up with a machine they'd have fired me. As time passed I found myself not able to stifle my laughter and whenever I laughed they screamed "Harder! Harder!"

My friends thought they were odd. I didn't. They were just people with unusual desires.

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Hi Mohican.

I think they wanted another human to participate and if I showed up with a machine they'd have fired me. As time passed I found myself not able to stifle my laughter and whenever I laughed they screamed "Harder! Harder!"

My friends thought they were odd. I didn't. They were just people with unusual desires.

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well one would not want to wish the oranges out of season because they only grow in the summer
the cost must be horrendous to keep up this demand.
to constantly grow oranges all year around is costly and not ideal.
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Hi Nacia.

In my youth, while a beach bum, a man stopped me and said he'd pay me ten dollars to throw oranges at him and his wife. My curiosity got the better of me and I said ok. So, when I arrived at his house, him, his wife and I rolled and squeezed some oranges until they were very soft. Then he showed me where to stand in their garage. On far wall was a false wall. They got naked, held hands and yelled 'fire away'! So I began throwing oranges at them. He became angry. "You need to throw harder. We want you to break our skin so the citrus acid can get inside the bruise. I'll give you another ten if you do that. So I threw the oranges as hard as I could and they oh'ed awh'ed. He gave me 20 dollars. We made a date to do it again the next week. "Why do you like that?" I asked. He laughed. "Cause we're pain sluts." It was money in the bank for a whole summer. wrc
Oh my word! This sounds a somewhat strange fetish!

I haven't any strange story to tell apart from a guy who wanted me to 'suck his thumb'. I only did it once but was slightly freaked out by how much he enjoyed it. Needless to say our brief relationship didn't last.
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